If you’re looking for family portraits that feel effortless and fun, you’re in the right place.

In this post, I’m sharing five easy tips to make your next photo session a breeze: meltdown free and memory filled.

Whether you’re prepping for your toddler’s first big portrait or wrangling your whole crew for a holiday card, this guide will help you show up relaxed and ready to enjoy it.

1. Choose Outfits That Feel Like You

Don’t default to matchy-matchy or Pinterest-perfect. The goal is elevated, not overdone.

Choose colors and textures that reflect your family’s natural style. Neutrals with depth—like oat, slate, or camel—photograph beautifully. Avoid logos or loud patterns that distract from the emotion in the frame.

Pro Tip: Bring a backup top for littles just in case snack time goes rogue!

2. Make a Memory Around It

Some of the best photo sessions don’t end at the shutter click. My photography studio is in downtown Fargo, and I always encourage families to plan a little treat afterward. Grab ice cream from Silver Lining Creamery or slide into the retro booths at Marge’s Diner just down Broadway.

When kids know fun is coming, they’re more likely to stay engaged and associate photo day with something special.

Try this: Tell them about the treat ahead of time. That anticipation works wonders.

3. Trust a Child-Led Approach

We guide, but we don’t force. I build in space for your child to lead the moment, whether that means showing off their best dinosaur roar or quietly snuggling with you in your lap.

Kids don’t need to perform to create heirloom portraits. They need connection, comfort, and a little room to be themselves.

Parent cue: Let go of “smile at the camera” expectations. Some of the best shots are the in-betweens.

4. Keep It Short and Sweet

Sessions typically last 15 to 45 minutes, depending on the age and energy of your child. That’s intentional.

I shoot quickly, give clear direction, and follow the rhythm your family brings in. No dragging things out. No pressure to get a “perfect” shot. We get what we need, and we keep it enjoyable!

What this means for you: No need to overpack your day. Simple is better.

5. Show Up With Realistic Expectations

Every family session is a little imperfect. That’s exactly what makes it beautiful.

Maybe one kid needs a break, or a snack mid-shot, or maybe you arrive a bit flustered. That’s okay! My job is to hold space for all of that and still get you the gallery you came for.

Mindset shift: You’re not performing for the camera. You’re just being present. And that’s more than enough.

If you’re ready for family portraits that feel like your family and are actually fun to take, you can book your session here.

You don’t have to settle for chaotic photo days or stiff, awkward poses. With just a little prep, this can be a sweet memory for all of you. ✌🏼